Safety on the internet

These days, internet access is a regular feature of our homes and schools. It can be a great source of information and entertainment, and the majority of children using the internet do not get into any serious danger.

But just like we taught our kids how to cross the road safely, we need to teach them the skills to be safe online:

• Keep your computer in a public space so you can easily see what your child is doing online.
• Limit the amount of time your child spends on the internet.
• Encourage your child to use a ‘favourites’ folder, so you know what sites they are visiting regularly.
• Use family safety programmes to block access to unsuitable sites.
• Familiarise yourself with the websites your children are accessing (check the 'History' regularly).
• Discuss with your child who they are communicating with in instant messaging programmes and social networking sites (eg Bebo, Facebook, MySpace).
• Encourage your child to tell you if something they have seen online makes them feel uncomfortable. Stay calm and praise them for bringing their concerns to you.
• Let your children know what is not okay  i.e. giving out personal information, meeting up with people they have met online etc.
• Young people are sharing their thoughts, photos and videos on the internet. Teach them not to share anything that they wouldn’t want the whole world to see or hear.

These websites have more tips for keeping your kids safe online:

• Families Commission has an article on safe internet use.
• Netsafe is an independent non-profit organisation providing cybersafety education for all New Zealanders.
• Hector’s World is an online educational programme for children aged 2–9. Parents and teachers can use it to help teach kids internet skills and safety.
• In My Day is aimed at parents and other adults who are trying to understand the way young people are using the internet, and how you can help them be safe.